Danny Gokey
Danny Gokey – as I wrote 1 month ago…
Danny Gokey has a unique story about the reason he is one of the semi-finalists in American idol season 8. Danny Gokey is a 28 years old church music teacher from Milwaukee. This is not the usual profile of the candidates of American idol and it makes him special already. The main reason Danny Gokey is in the show is his wife. Those of you who doesn’t know him and his story probably saying now ‘so, what’s the big deal ? I’m doing things that my wife tells me to do everyday’. Well’ that’s not exactly the story here because the decision about Danny Gokey’s audition to American idol is probably one of the last decisions the couple made together. Sophia, Danny Gokey’s wife, passed away four weeks before he auditioned, after she had suffered a congenital heart disease. His wife had motivated him to try out before she died. Wow, That’s a big reason to try as hard as he can but is that all ? I believe not. People have lot’s of ways to deal with the lost of their beloved ones. I’m sure that for Danny Gokey, loosing his wife being so young and at the beginning of his grown life, should be a major trauma. Some people are dealing such traumas in active ways, out of the fear of the depression that can easily come if you’ll let it. Active coping can be very strong when you know that the love that you’ve just lost would have want you to do whatever it is that your’e doing. That’s the main reason that we keep hearing the sentence whe would want me to…’. In Danny Gokey’s case, His wife would want him to be in American idol. This fact gives him a great deal of motivation but a I guess the problem with that is the expectations. Danny Gokey’s greatest power can easily become his greatest weakness because of his natural vulnerability right now. I’m sure he feel’s that in no way he can disappoint himself and/or his wife. This is quite dangerous because the American idol is a cruel competition in which most of the people loose. I really hope that I’m wrong because Danny Gokey looks like a great and sensitive guy, maybe that’s why I’m worried. Another interesting detail in Danny Gokey’s story is that he auditioned in Kansas city, Missouri along with his best friend, Jamar Rogers. He made it through Hollywood rounds along with Rogers. Rogers was eliminated before making it in the top 36. This should be hard for Danny Gokey because all of the sudden he is all alone. I’m sure that Rogers was a big source of confidence for him and now he left and Gokey lost it. I hope I’m not being over-protective about this guy but I think it’s just a delicate situation he’s dealing with and it’ll take a lot of strength to go with all the way. I hope to see him in the very final stages.